Karen, feel your pain.
Funny back story. We discovered a band called Pele JUJU at Kerrville one year and bought a couple of CDS. The name of the band was good for a few good giggles and the music was good too.
For some reason we came to use the name of the band to communicate a very simple and needed response. When I'd say something to my wife and she did not respond for whatever reason, I'd say "Pele JUJU"
We shortened it to PJ or Peejay after a while. It was a most effective way of saying I just said something and you didn't respond. At All. Please do.
So, even if she was not ready to comment on my point, if she said PJ I knew she heard me, got me, and would respond in due time.
You are quite right, here. It's like where'd everybody go? What I will say about this, for me anyway, is my slow wireless connection and laptop here usually draaaaaaaaag trying to download or link to these things. I always try and almost always fail. So, I'm most interested in hearing the links just that I haven't yet.
In other words............................PJ